
Jewish Speed Dating
Meet Jewish singles five minutes at a time — at our online events, and at in-person speed dating across the country.
Tribester Online Speed Dating
Private 5-minute video dates with Jewish singles your age, from home. You’ll get your mutual matches by email the next day.

Sunday, November 8 · 7:00 PM ET
“Tribe Match” NYC Jewish Speed Dating (Ages 25-39)
Details & tickets →
Sunday, November 8 · 7:00 PM ET
“Tribe Match” NYC Jewish Speed Dating (Ages 30s and 40s)
Details & tickets →More Jewish Speed Dating Events
Upcoming in-person and online speed dating from other Jewish organizations.
How our online speed dating works
1. Get your ticket
Right after you buy, Airmeet emails your personal link and a calendar invite.
2. Join from your laptop
Log in a few minutes early on a laptop or desktop, set up a quick profile if you like, and say hi in the Social Lounge.
3. Go on 5-minute dates
Our host welcomes everyone, then you’re paired for a series of private video dates — just long enough to see if there’s a spark.
4. Get your matches
Tell us who you’d like to see again. The next day, we email you the first name and email of everyone you mutually matched with.
What past daters say
The system works great and this is an excellent format.
Great event! Much better than Zoom.
Thank you so much! This was my first time and I really enjoyed it.
Really great… I personally love this style.
Much like guilt, speed dating was invented by the Jews
In 1998, Rabbi Yaacov Deyo introduced speed dating at a Peet’s Coffee in Beverly Hills, using a gragger — the noisemaker from Purim — as the signal to switch partners.
His goal was to introduce Jewish singles with “maximum efficiency.” The idea took flight and was shared with the world — call it an act of zechus, the merit created by a good deed. Today Jewish speed dating events take place in cities across the country, and online.
Jewish speed dating FAQ
What is Jewish speed dating?
A series of short one-on-one dates with Jewish singles in your age range. After each round you move to the next person. At the end you say who you’d like to see again, and when the interest is mutual, you both get each other’s contact details.
How does Tribester’s online speed dating work?
Our events run on Airmeet. After you buy a ticket, Airmeet emails you a personal link. On the night, our host welcomes everyone and you’re paired for private 5-minute video dates. The next day we email your mutual matches.
Can I join from my phone?
Please use a laptop or desktop computer with the Chrome browser. Airmeet doesn’t work well on phones or tablets. There’s nothing to download.
Who can attend?
Jewish singles within the event’s age range. Each event lists its ages, and some events run two age groups at the same time.
Are there in-person Jewish speed dating events?
Yes. We list in-person Jewish speed dating from other organizations under “More Jewish Speed Dating Events” above. For more ways to meet people, browse our Jewish events by city.
Get notified about our next event
Be first to hear when tickets go on sale. No spam — just speed dating announcements.


